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5 Personal Development Habits to start with

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Do you want to improve yourself and break free from limiting habits? Personal development habits are essential for growth, confidence, and success. In this article, we'll explore five habits to help you transform your life. The Power of Habits Habits can be good or bad, and it's up to you to identify and change them. As James Clear states in his book, Atomic Habits, "Take one habit at a time." Let's dive into the five habits you need to start with: 1. Gratitude Writing down what you're grateful for every day widens your mind and helps you stay focused on your goals. Gratitude is a form of positivity that helps you stay happy and believe that everything will be alright. 2. Mindfulness and Meditation Regular mindfulness and meditation can reduce stress, increase focus, and enhance emotional regulation. Take a few minutes each day to meditate, walk, or simply be quiet. 3. Journaling Writing down your thoughts, feelings, and experiences can foster self-awareness, ...

APRIL MUST BE BETTER

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 "Itā€™s Either You Give Up or You Endure." Sometimes, what we want is right in front of us, but we don't know how to reach it. We may even know how to get there, but the path is not always easy. What we need is a mindset that is determined, focused, and consistent*. If your mindset is filled with thoughts like, ā€œ Itā€™s hard,ā€ ā€œI canā€™t do it,ā€ ā€œI donā€™t have the time,ā€ or ā€œIā€™m not good enough ,ā€then achieving anything becomes almost impossible. Now ask yourself: - What are my dreams? - What steps am I taking toward them? - What can I do consistently to make my dreams come true? You need to be true to yourself and know what you actually want. You cannot keep settling for less when your dreams and purpose are slowly dying. You have to do something. Start doing something consistently. Donā€™t allow the distractions around you to drain your energy. Your dreams, your purpose, and your goals are more important than anything else. Thatā€™s why Iā€™ve prepared something for you. Introduci...

A WOMAN OF GOD

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  Who is a woman of God? Do you know there is a difference between a Christian woman and a woman of God?  You must be wondering. They are supposed to be the same but actually, they are not. A woman of God is not a Christian woman and a Christian woman is not a woman of God.  Ladies conference held on the 21st of March 2025 The Ladies Conference which was organized and held yesterday was for the purpose of letting every young ones know that they are not just born to be a Christian but they have a purpose on earth. And this is to make them realize that they have to deepen their relationship with God.  Going to church is not just enough, participating is not also enough. We need to deepen our relationship with God because that is what God wants from us.  We will be exploring who a Christian woman is and who a woman of God is.  Note this: You can be a lady or a girl and still be called woman of God. It's not about age, it's about who you are. You get a title wh...

TO THAT GIRL WHO IS SAD

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Dear sis, I may not know what's causing your sadness, but I'm here to offer warmth and support. It's okay to feel sad, even when we trust in God. It's okay to cry, even when we have faith. It's okay to feel hopeless, because that's when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable. However, don't dwell on those feelings. Take a deep breath, and let go of the negativity. Stop thinking about those who pretend to care but don't truly have your best interests at heart. Stop worrying about the present and future; God has everything under control. Instead, focus on yourself. Smile, not to hide the pain, but because you know God is good and faithful. Smile because you deserve happiness. Don't let anyone, including the devil, steal your joy. Wipe away your tears, clear your mind, and restart. Set goals, work on yourself, and learn new skills. Focus on your personal growth, and you'll realize that happiness comes from within. I'm here for you, and I want to se...

HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY

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 We see our mates receiving flowers, roses, and beautiful gifts from their man or woman on a special occasion like Valentines.  What a beautiful occasion!  If you don't want to be oppressed during love day, try to make yourself happy.  One thing I learnt is to stay happy even if no one can. Don't wait for anyone to buy you flowers or take you out or make you feel loved, but you must make yourself happy.  We only find joy when stay positive and grateful. No one wants to remain sad. Instead of looking moody when your friends are being showered with love, try to do something that can make you happy.  Today, I made a few list of things you can do during love day. These are the list of how you can make yourself happy and not feel moody.  I hope this helps and gives you the idea of what you can do.  1. WRITE A LOVE LETTER TO YOURSELF So many times we've forgotten that we ourselves need to read something that will enlighten our mind and make us feel love...

3 THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING AS A LADY

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  3 Things You Must Stop Doing as a Lady A lady is the epitome of beauty, uniqueness, and strength. However, many ladies have compromised their potential by adopting habits that hinder their growth. Let's explore three things you must stop doing to reach your full potential. 1. USING YOUR PHONE FIRST THING IN THE MORNING  Many of us are guilty of checking our phones immediately after waking up. However, starting your day with God is essential. Matthew 6:33 reminds us to "seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Cultivate the habit of giving honor to God first thing in the morning. Instead of scrolling through social media, spend time with God, and watch your day transform. " Get your copy of our inspiring book, ALONE. This powerful story follows a young girl's journey as she navigates life's challenges and discovers what truly matters. Witness her transformation as she finds herself and rebuilds ...

TURN YOUR DREAMS INTO REALITY

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  Your dreams are your goals. It's time to stop just dreaming and start taking action. As the quote goes, "Do you want to continue sleeping in bed and dreaming, or do you want to get up and make that dream come to pass?" Many of us struggle to understand the importance of taking action. We'd rather stay in our comfort zones, sleeping and dreaming, than face the challenges of reality. But the truth is, every dream requires effort and dedication to become a reality. Break Down Your Dreams into Achievable Goals The key is to break down your big dreams into smaller, manageable goals. Take small steps every day, and you'll be surprised at how quickly progress adds up. Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. Overcome Fear and Excuses Don't let fear hold you back. As a believer in God, you have the strength and courage to overcome any obstacle. Stop making excuses and start taking action. Be determined, disciplined, and bold. Start Setting Your Goals Today So, what...